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By Diane Mary · Updated April 25, 2018

Moisturizers are so important for curly and wavy hair. Our hair is more dry by nature and using products with moisturizing ingredients will help the overall health of our hair, allowing it to look better, feel better and even grow longer. There are several different ways you can use moisturizing products but once you use them regularly, you will feel your hair is softer and more nourished. I like to use them on wet hair before applying gel stylers or oils and then on dry hair every day to put the moisture back in my hair. Moisturizers come in various forms including conditioners, styling butters or even mists. Everyone’s hair favors different moisturizing ingredients.

My hair personally loves Aloe Vera, Shea Butter and Coconut Oil. Because my hair is genetically super dry and also color treated, my hair might require more moisture than others with looser and similar curl patterns. It is all about playing and experimenting with different products to find what works best for you. Here are some of my favorite moisturizing products.

Editor’s note: This article was originally published in 2014 and has been updated due to discontinued products.

Moisturizers for Colored Curls

By Diane Mary · Updated April 13, 2018

Should you wash your hair at night, or in the morning? In an ideal world, I would wash my hair in the morning, let my deep conditioner sit for a half-hour, then allow it to air dry, no matter how many hours it would take.

However, unfortunately, that is not realistic for me right now.

So instead, I am currently experimenting with which time of day works better. Here are the pros and cons of washing your hair in the morning versus washing your hair at night.

Morning washing

Many of curlies get excellent Day 1 curls, and washing in the morning allows us take advantage of this. However, if you have to be somewhere and do not have time to air dry your wet hair, then a diffuser is required to speed up drying time. For some, diffusing can cause hair to be a bit frizzier.

Washing in the morning may also mean having to wake up earlier, which is not the best option for those of us who aren’t morning people.

Going outside with freshly wet, washed hair in the winter also doesn’t work for me (since temperatures below freezing may cause hair breakage”>.  If you must wash in the morning and don’t have a lot of time, gently squeezing out excess moisture with a cotton or microfiber towel can help decrease drying time without making hair frizzy.

Night washing

If you get home from your work day early enough, you may be able to wash your hair and have plenty of time to air dry before bed, which can be ideal but is not a realistic scenario for many of us. If not, you are left with the choice to wash and dry right before bed, or go to sleep with wet hair. Sleep drying, as I call it, is risky for me because I toss and turn so much. More often than not, I wake up the next day with curls that are frizzy and super wonky.

More often than not, I wake up the next day with curls that are frizzy and super wonky. 

The other issue with sleep drying is that our hair is so much more susceptible to breakage when wet, so tossing too much can lead to damage, as well as tangles. One method that can help improve the sleep drying process is to overnight plop. Plopping helps the hair dry and set the curls, but tossing and turning too much can cause the plop towel to come off.

Some curlies find washing and diffusing at night to be beneficial because there is not as much mystery involved with waking up. You know what your hair looked like before bed and may just need to touch it up minimally, if at all. Sleeping with hair in a pineapple can help keep the shape of your freshly washed hair. Satin pillowcases and/or satin hair bonnets are good for sleep also regardless of when you wash because they help to keep frizz at bay.

To sum up

As with all steps on the curly hair journey, you will likely have to try both to see which one works for you. If you are not a morning person and don’t achieve good results with a diffuser, then you may want to try washing at night.

If you have time to wash right after work, this gives you time to air dry your hair completely before going to bed.

If you like the way your hair looks best on day 1, then morning washing might be best for you.

I think it’s important to note that most curlies can’t wake up in the morning and walk out the door without touching up their curls at least a little bit. For some curlies that might mean fluffing out their hair after sleeping in a pineapple, for others that might mean re-wetting your hair to bring bounce and definition back to flattened curls.

Morning or night washing–which do you prefer?

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By Diane Mary · Published March 16, 2018

When learning to care for your curls, it is not uncommon to search for products that are meant for your specific hair type. NaturallyCurly’s typing system is wonderful in helping you learn what kind of textured curls you have and what kind of products and application methods will work best. I am a mix of 2C and 3A (it is perfectly normal for everyone to have multiple types on their head”>. However, through trial, error and tons of experimentation over the years, I found my hair behaves quite differently than most Wavies’. A few examples include that it does not get weighed down super easily, is constantly super dry and loves heavier butters and oils.

In recent months, more and more brands have released products for Type 4 Coily hair types. This is wonderful since every single hair type deserves choices and lines catered to them! The products in these lines are full of rich butters and oils to help Type 4 hair, which can deal with more dryness and be more fragile than other hair types. Now, I’m not about to do an article all about coily hair because it is not my place to do so, but I was curious about what could happen when Type 2C/3A me tried specific products catered towards Type 4 hair. Did they work? Were they too much?

As mentioned earlier, if you are a typical Type 2/Wavy and you get weighed down super easily or your strands are very fine, I don’t suggest giving this a go. But if your hair sounds similar to mine in being super dry, fragile, frizzy, and always wanting more moisture even though your curls are looser, you may benefit from trying some of these products.

Something I noticed across the board with these different brands, is to start off by not using a lot. Less is more as far as the amount of product used, with nearly everything I tried out.

CURLS Cashmere and Caviar Collection

CURLS states, “Strengthen, Restructure & Add Sheen to Stressed and Damaged Coils and Kinks formulated with:

• Certified Organic Cashmere Extract for Uber Soft, Yet Stronger Tresses
• Certified Organic Caviar Extract, Rich in Vitamins A and D + Omega 3, 6 and 9
• Champagne Fruit Extract for Increased Elasticity and Manageability”

Being a big fan of CURLS Blueberry Bliss line and remembering using Curls Cashmere products a few years ago that had some similar ingredients as this new line does, something inside me knew the Cashmere and Caviar Collection would work well for me and wow I was right! I tried the whole collection and enjoyed every single product. Thought the Gelle didn’t have enough hold for post-shower styling, it makes a fantastic styler for me to add back shine and fight frizz on Day 2 and 3. I don’t know that I could select a favorite product from this line because they all performed quite well. I will say, the Hair Silk is another stand out because it is a unique Leave-In as it feels and looks much more like a serum than a leave-in conditioner. My curls drank it up and every time I use it with other products from this line or mixed with other brands, my curls feel extra soft. The Hair Bath has charcoal in it to help really give the scalp and hair a nice cleanse but didn’t leave it stiff feeling at all.

The Mane Choice Type 4 Leaf Clover Collection

The Mane Choice states, “Finally, an advanced hair care system created with highly-texture in mind! Type 4 Leaf Clover collection is a moisture-rich solution designed to help eliminate dryness and minimize breakage that can be associated with highly-textured hair. Our moisturizing complex of clove oil, flaxseed oil, and aloe vera delivers softness, shine, and vitality to moisture-depleted hair. Type 4 Leaf Clover collection is sure to add lasting moisture and softness, improve manageability, and enhance natural texture.“

My hair is so dry and prone to breakage which is why I believe it responded well to the items I tried from this collection. As soon as I read the words “for moisture-depleted hair” in the description, I knew I had to try. I like all of the vitamins, nutrients, and ingredients inside of these products such as Biotin, Vitamin D, E, Flax Seed Oil and Aloe Vera to name a few. The Moisturizing Styling Cream is super thick but soaks into my curls so effortlessly. Of any styling cream I ever tried, this is one where I truly need to use a teeny tiny amount for great results. It made an excellent, richer leave in for me but also added moisture back into Day 2 or 3 when my hair felt extra dry (this cold, cold Winter has done my hair no favors”>. The Leave-In Spray is also excellent on Day 2 or 3 when my curls wanted some moisture back but didn’t need quite as much to go into the Styling Cream. The last product I tried from this collection, the Mask, increased my curl definition and left them so shiny, bouncy and silky. I was more than pleased. This line also has a Shampoo, Conditioner and Gel I did not try yet. I really want to try the Gel but it was out of stock at the Sally Beauty near me. The Mane Choice Type 4 Leaf Clover Collection is another Coily targeted line that gave my waves great results.

My hair after using the new Shea Moisture collection.

Shea Moisture Red Palm Oil and Cocoa Butter Collection

NC Editor Lauren reviewed this collection, and here are her thoughts. “This line focuses on elongating 3C-4C curls and conditioning shrinkage prone strands. It is also sulfate free, completely free of coconut oil, and provides a nice frizz-free finish to all of your styles.“

As a wavy, I do not experience as much shrinkage as my curlier and coilier friends out there, but parts of my hair are curlier than others so I was intrigued to see if elongating products would even everything out a bit. Truthfully, it did not. The curlier parts were still curlier. However, I did like the way the products performed. I used the Styling Gelee on wet curls after leave in but before oil as my styler and it had an excellent amount of hold that left my curls looking defined, shiny and not too frizzy. I also got the Reshaping Shine Butter from this collection. The instructions said to use dry so I used a little amount on Day 2 and it helped calm some frizz and add back shine. The texture of the Shine Butter was surprisingly very gritty, and even when I emulsified it between my palms the little gritty bits didn’t go away. I reached out to the brand to see if this is how the butter was supposed to be or if I just got a bad jar, but they didn’t respond. This line also has a Shampoo, Conditioner and Stretch Pudding I did not try.

Overall, my Type 2c/3a curly waves had great success with the Type 4 products I tried, but again, I don’t consider myself to have the usual characteristics most Type 2 Wavies do.

Have you tried products that are not targeted for your hair type? What were your results?

Leave them in the comments below, but PLEASE remember to be kind.

Editor’s Note: This post was not sponsored or endorsed by any of the above-mentioned brands.

By Diane Mary · Published February 9, 2018

A hair dryer is something curlies just sometimes have to use.

Even though I prefer to air dry my naturally curly waves, since my high porosity, 2C/3A hair takes hours to do so, there are times air drying fully just is not an option.

Enter: Diffusing.

I’ve had my eye on the Dyson Supersonic Dryer ever since it debuted, but $400 for a blow dryer is steep, I get it. Well, I finally managed to get my hands on this coveted hair dryer (using credit card points”>. I’ve been using the dryer with the magnetic diffuser attachment, and I’m here to share my thoughts, and a demo, plus offer some diffusing tips and will talk about a few other less expensive options as well.

The biggest benefit for me when diffusing my curls with a hair dryer is that it is quicker to do so than air drying. Definitely a time saver, especially in the winter when it really is not a good idea to outside with wet hair in temperatures below 50 degrees farenheight, as this can actually cause hair damage. Additionally, when I do diffuse, my curls sometimes look bouncier. Of course, since my curls are fragile and I want to protect them from heat, I will never diffuse without a heat protector. My Holy Grail that I ALWAYS reach for is the Briogeo Blow Dry Perfection and Heat Protectant Creme. Aside from being silicone and paraben free, it smells amazing, protects the hair while strengthening and adds shine!

So back to the Dyson Dryer. According to the brand, these are the key benefits and features of the Dyson SuperSonic dryer:

• Dries hair faster
• Intelligent heat control prevents damage
• Promotes smooth, shiny hair
• Ergonomically balanced
• Prevents extreme heat damage: air temperature is measured 20 times every second, keeping the temperature under control.
• Cool to touch: tired of grabbing a hot blow dryer accidentally? With heat shield technology, the surfaces of the attachments don’t get too hot, even during close-up styling.
• Acoustically tuned: the powerful motor is tuned to be quieter than you’d think.
• Precise speed and heat settings: delivers fast drying and styling, regular drying, and gentle drying with a constant cool flow.
• Easy to clean: simply twist and release to clean the filter.
• Negative ions: eliminate static.

The Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer has three different airflow settings as well as four heat settings, including a constant cold mode.

I usually leave it on the highest airflow and lowest heat setting; I don’t want the air flow to be too hot and torch my hair. Something good to remember is that if the air is too hot for your skin, it is also too hot for your hair. I also always finish up using the cold air flow. This helps seal the cuticle and manage frizz.

My favorite thing about the Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer is how it truly did cut my drying time down significantly.

My hair takes hours upon hours to air dry, and normal diffusing takes a good 45 minutes. With this dryer, I can be done anywhere from 14 to 23 minutes, which for me is unheard of! Saving time in my hair routine is worth every penny. I also got the dryer for a lot less than the retail price by purchasing it from Ulta Beauty and using Ulta Rewards points I saved up for quite some time.

My top diffusing tips for wavy and curly hair

I’m a regular curly-haired girl, not a licensed or professional stylist, so by no stretch of the imagination do I consider myself an expert in diffusing. I’m still learning and practicing, plus as previously mentioned, air drying is my go-to. Usually, my hair comes out a lot frizzier and poufier when I diffuse, but I’ve managed to fix that a bit with practice and persistence.

1. Hold the diffuser still over each section you are drying rather than moving it quickly back and forth.
2. Move the dryer every few seconds so no area of hair gets too hot.
3. Never ever use the hottest heat setting, even if it could dry hair even faster. It is not worth the damage.
4. Always finish on the cold setting to help with frizz and add shine.
5. If you want volume, diffuse with your head upside down. (Note: the author does not like too much volume in her hair, which is why she doesn’t do this”>

Here is my full review and demo using the Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer.

Cheaper alternatives

If you are looking for a hair dryer or diffuser and do not want to try the Dyson Supersonic — hey, I get it — here are some other dryers and diffusers that are very popular in the curly community:

• Devacurl DevaDryer and DevaFuser is actually my second favorite dryer and diffuser combo. They also do an excellent job at drying my curls and giving bounce but this dryer does take longer for me than the Dyson does. I do love the DevaFuser, though. The unique hand shape helps to get in my roots and cause absolute minimal frizz. I wish there was a way to get this diffuser to stay on the Dyson Dryer. That would be amazing.
• Xtava Black Orchid Diffuser has longer prongs than most bowl diffusers I have seen. My friend Nico (@_nicurly on Instagram — he has amazing curls”> says that this bowl shaped diffuser is good for longer hair because it gets a lot of hair dry at once and also helps with volume.
• A strainer is something most of us have in the kitchen, and curlies have found that it performs the job of a diffuser really well. It’s free, accessible, and some even find that it dries their hair faster than a traditional diffuser.
• The Curly Co. Collaspsible Diffuser is excellent at adding more bounce to curls according to Nico, but it can also take away some volume. The prongs on this diffuser are significantly sorter than the ones on the Dyson Diffuser and Black Orchid. The fact that it is made of soft, collapsible rubber makes this a space-saver and a good option for traveling with.

Overall, I do find the Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer to be worth the investment for the time it saves me when I need to blow dry my hair, but I understand not everyone can spend that amount on a blow dryer.

Editor’s Note: of this list, the only other one the author has tried is the DevaFuser

Have you tried this dryer?

Do you have a less expensive dryer that works well for you? What are your best diffusing tips? Comment below — but please be nice and respectful!

Disclaimer: this article was not sponsored by Dyson.

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By Diane Mary · Published February 7, 2018

What is the CG Method?

This is short for “The Curly Girl Method” which is also referred to as “The No Poo Method.” It originated years ago in a book written by Lorraine Massey (also the creator of the Devacurl line”> called Curly Girl: The Handbook. The book helps people embrace their natural texture and explains a new and revolutionary routine to get healthy, well-behaved waves, curls and coils. 

There are essentially three main “rules” to the CG method: No poo/sulfates, no silicones, and no heat.

What are the Curly Girl Method benefits?

Less damage, less frizz, better curl definition, better manageability, softer hair and the potential to grow even longer hair for starters! Please keep in mind, everyone’s hair is different so of course it may take some trial, error and experimentation for you to get the Curly Girl method down pat and figure out exactly which was it works for you. But I promise once you do, consistent good hair days and an increase in confidence will make it all worth your while.

“You’d never dream of washing a good sweater with detergent. Yet most shampoos contain harsh detergents (sodium lauryl sulfate or laureth sulfate”> that one also finds in dish washing liquid. They’re great for pots and pans because they cut grease so effectively. Your hair on the other hand, needs to retain some natural oils, which protect your hair and scalp. Stripping them away deprives the hair of necessary moisture and amino acids and makes it look dry and dull.” -Lorraine Massey

No shampoo

No poo means not using traditional shampoos full of sulfates. Why? Sulfates are very harsh. They strip the hair of its natural oils causing it to be extremely dry. Because textured hair is porous, it is virtually impossible to rinse out all traces of shampoo and that leftover residue can contribute to frizz. It is highly recommended before starting the CG method to clean your hair one final time with a clarifying shampoo to remove any product build up, residue, and non-water soluble silicones that were living in your hair so you can truly start with a clean slate.

The Curly Girl Method suggests cleansing hair with a “Conditioner Wash”, also known as a “Co-Wash” or “Cleansing Conditioner”. Most conditioners contain mild surfactants that, paired up with a little manual friction, are capable of lifting off dirt, debris and excess oil from the scalp and hair.

Consider these ingredients while selecting your no-poo (or co-wash”>:

• Natural Emollients–which soften, smooth the hair and give it shine. Natural oils and butters are excellent options.
• Proteins–these will temporarily repair damaged hair and protect it. Note that some people’s hair are protein sensitive and the protein can build up. Usually the healthier the hair, the less protein you need. If you happen to be protein sensitiv, make sure to use a protein-free conditioner. Otherwise look for a conditioner with protein. Examples of proteins include silk, soy, wheat, keratin or individual amino acids (components of proteins”>.
• Humectants–which absorb water and hold in moisture. They are absolutely crucial in a conditioner for curly hair. Panthenol, vegetable glycerin, sorbitol and honey are just a few humectants to look for on the label. Moisturizers soften and control to curly hair. Amino acids and aloe vera are two great moisturizers. 

No Silicones

There is great debate as to whether silicones are beneficial for hair or not. As far as the CG method is concerned, they are bad and should be avoided. Aside from silicones, the CG method also says to avoid waxes, non-natural oils, or any other non-soluble ingredients in your conditioners and any styling products. Most silicones can only be removed with shampoos that contain harsh sulfates. This is why they can be a problem. Avoiding such ingredients is essential so they do not build up on your hair which can lead to frizz and added dryness.

How do you identify silicones?

A silicone is any ingredient that ends with the suffixes -one, -conol, or -xane. However, sometimes you may see “PEG-” in front of the silicone, in which case they are water soluble and will not build up on the hair. Example: Dimethicone is non water soluble and will cause build uo. PEG-Dimethicone is water soluble and alright. Waxes are easily identified because they have “wax” in the ingredient name (usually”>.

You also want to avoid drying alcohols, if at all possible, in your conditioners and stylers. Drying alcohols are commonly found in conditioners, leave in conditioners, gels, mousses, and hairsprays as fillers. For products that you are going to rinse out, this is not as big of a deal, but for products that are going to sit in your hair all day, or for several days, they should not contain drying alcohols. There are also moisturizing or fatty alcohols however, that sound similar, so be sure not to confuse those with drying alcohols.

No Heat

When following the CG Method, it is best to avoid heat styling tools. That being said, if it is the middle of winter and freezing, by all means do not go outside with your hair wet! There is a proper way to blow dry hair and that is with an attached diffuser which spreads the heat more evenly on the curls.

It is highly encouraged to let your hair air dry naturally as often as possible on the CG method. This is easier to do in the warmer months. You do not want to direct blow dryer air directly on one spot of your hair for any length of time and do not use any styling irons such as flat irons and curling irons. Doing so will cause severe damage to your hair. Ms. Massey affectionately refers to blow drying as “blow frying” because you are frying your tresses.

Some other things to consider with The Curly Girl Method

• More Frizz – Some people may experience more frizz at the beginning of the Curly Girl Method than before. This is because your hair is finally able to “breathe” and is not trapped under silicones and bad stylers. With proper use of co-washes, hydrating conditioners and silicone free stylers, it should subside within a few weeks.
• Mushy Hair – If your hair feels mushy, soft, and frizzy, you probably have over conditioned hair. While curly hair tends to be dry and need a lot of moisture, some products can overload hair, especially if it is fine or less dry. If this happens, clarify with a sulfate free shampoo and using lighter conditioners and moisturizers on your hair. Make sure not to deep condition too often.
• Seasonal Care – Different seasons call for different care methods. In the summer, use more liquid-based products so you do not suffocate the hair. Leave less conditioner or leave-in cream in your hair to prevent frizz and increase definition. In the winter, it is the opposite. Use a heavier, creamier products and more conditioner or leave-in to combat dry, wintry air.

Not everyone follows the Curly Girl Method 100% all the time. Not even me. I consider myself to be “mod CG” or “modified CG” meaning while I use the Curly Girl method as a base, I may wind up using products with castor oil or a non water soluble silicone for product testing purposes. And it’s okay. Over the years though I have learned that, for me personally, following the CG method as close as possible makes my hair its happiest. The biggest thing for me is avoiding sulfates because they do dry my hair out terribly. But my hair is longer than it has even been thanks to it not breaking off from excessive flat ironing and being properly hydrated. When I am strict about avoiding cones, I notice my 2c/3a curly wave definition is increased and frizz is decreased.

If you decide to try the CG Method (or even take some principles of it”>, let us at NaturallyCurly know how it works out for you.

By Diane Mary · Published December 22, 2017

I was so fortunate to be asked by Michelle Breyer to be part of her book, “The Curly Revolution: Inspiring Stories and Practical Advice from the NaturallyCurly Community.”

Not only was I included in the book, she even put me on the cover! What a true honor. The photo shoot for that book was from September 2016 and now, December 2017 my hair has grown significantly, and even got curlier. I wanted to take time to talk about my updated healthy hair regimen.

At this point, I have not colored or bleached my hair in almost three years.

As I was quoted in the book, the bleach truly damaged my hair causing terrible breakage. It will be three years since I last dyed my hair in February 2018. I didn’t realize it when my hair was colored, but the damage that was done negatively affected my curl pattern. While I’m not saying no curly girl should ever dye their hair, make sure you go to a curl professional who knows what they are doing. Additionally, my whole life, my hair does seem to increase in curl as it grows longer.

Since the Curl Revolution shoot, my routine and favorite products have both changed. I now follow the Curly Girl Method using no sulfates or silicones in products at all. Not only has this helped my 2C/3A waves become curlier and defined as well as more manageable, I also think this, along with daily scalp massage with oil has helped my hair grow to the maximum potential each month.

I absolutely love using DevaCurl products now.

Many of their stylers have become “holy grails” including Arch Angel Gel, B’Leave In and Mirror Curls. Their Deep Sea Repair and Melt Into Moisture treatment masks that were released this year have also become my hair’s best friends. I like mixing both of them together for the perfect combination of strength and moisture Other lines I reach for regularly that do not let me down include Raw Curls, CurlSmith and Briogeo. There is also this new refreshing spray, Witch I Love Your Hair, that is a combination of lavender, peppermint, rosemary, castor and argan oils with water. There are real quartz crystals inside the bottle — instead of preservatives — to mix the oils and water together. I love massaging the spray into my scalp to stimulate growth as well as refreshing day 2 or 3 hair. This spray also has uplifting aromatherapy benefits — and it smells amazing!

How I keep my curls in shape:

Here are some regular habits I practice to keep my hair in tip top shape.

• I take a hair vitamin to help compliment a healthy diet. For the past few months I’ve been using CURLS Blissful Lengths Vitamins since the body actually absorbs more liquid than pill form.
• I sleep on a satin pillowcase with my hair in a loose pineapple on top of my head to help prevent friction that can cause frizz, split ends and tangles.
• I wash my hair two to three times a week and use a deep treatment each wash. I add heat to the deep treatment once a week for the treatment to penetrate deeper. I alternate between a co-wash and sulfate-free shampoo each wash.
• I do a hard protein treatment every six weeks. I really like the ApHogee 2 Step Protein Treatment for this, but use a Curly Girl Method-friendly conditioner since their brand has silicones.
• On the days I don’t wash my hair, I use the refreshing spray mentioned above as well as a cream or leave-in conditioner to add more moisture to my dry, high porosity hair especially now that the weather is so cold and dry in Winter.
• I go for regular trims three to four times a year. I love going to the Devachan Salon in NYC! I used to always get my curls cut wet and although those cuts were good, I like getting my curls cut on dry hair a lot better. Regular trims are essential for preventing traveling split ends up the hair shaft.
• I use essential oils for scalp massages almost every day to help keep my scalp healthy and stimulate hair growth.
• I apply styling products on my hair the way LaToya at the Devachan Salon taught me. You can see a video on how I do this here .

• I air dry my hair as much as possible. If I do have to diffuse, I make sure to use a silicone-free heat protector. The best one I found is Briogeo Rosarco Blow Dry Perfection and Heat Protectant Creme. I also do not go out of the house with wet hair if it is below 50 degrees, as I learned that this can also lead to breakage.

The biggest takeaway from my updated curly routine?

Overall, I definitely think my healthy hair is just getting better and better as the months progress. It is growing in healthy and I look forward to having mermaid length hair again hopefully in a year or so.

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By Diane Mary · Published October 10, 2017

Dyeing our hair different colors is a fun way to experiment with our look. But sometimes, we may not fall in love with the color we wanted or it doesn’t turn out quite like what we hoped for! Before you label your new hair color a disaster, there are a few different ways you can remove hair dye at home. Sure, you can always go buy a “hair dye removal” kit, but those are full of chemicals and can lead to really bad damage to your precious locks. “Shopping” your kitchen to remove the hair dye is a safer and more gentle alternative.

Bonus…these options are inexpensive and safe for the environment!

1. Baking Soda

This is a gradual process and may not give instant results, but you can safely repeat it until you reached your desire goal and not have to worry about damage.

Directions

1. Mix the baking soda with your favorite shampoo (If you use a clarifying shampoo, that would be especially good. My favorite is the Ouidad Clarifying Shampoo“>
2. Use approximately 1 tablespoon of baking soda mixed with 1 tablespoon of your shampoo (depending on the thickness of your hair”>.
3. Lather the mix into your hair and scalp; let it sit for a couple minutes then rinse.

The baking soda will help lighten your hair and won’t remove the dye completely after the first try. Wait a few days and repeat the process as needed.

2. Vitamin C

This is probably the safest and most non-abrasive option for people who have dyed their hair a particularly dark color and would like to remove it quickly.

This method for removing hair dye works best if the Vitamin C paste is applied only after a few days from the time you originally dyed your hair. Though, it will show decent results later on as well – just don’t expect magic.

Directions

1. Crush a handful of Vitamin C tablets in a bowl.
2. Add some hot water till it creates a a thick paste.
3. Apply it to your wet hair and leave it on for about an hour before rinsing out.

Optional

• Add some shampoo into the mix if you want some extra lather.
• Place a plastic bag or shower cap around your hair to help the mixture penetrate your hair strands more effectively.

3. White Vinegar

You should use plain white vinegar for this method. The acidity of the vinegar will help remove the dye from your hair without damaging your scalp like some expensive hair products can do. It is also a safer and more natural way to go about removing hair dye, just like Vitamin C and Baking Soda!

Directions

1. Saturate your hair with a mixture of half warm water and half vinegar
2. Cover your hair with a shower cap (or plastic bag”> for 15 to 20 minutes.
3. Wash your hair and rinse clean.

You should notice a difference in the shade of your hair afterward when you remove hair dye with vinegar.

Not only does removing hair dye at home save your hair from excess damage, it will also save you some money as opposed to buying an expensive kit or going back to the salon! After removing dye with any of the above methods, I suggest using a good deep treatment to help add moisture and strength back into your hair as well.

My favorite deep treatments

• Briogeo Don’t Despair Repair Mask
• SheaMoisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Masque
• Living Proof Restore Treatment Mask

By Diane Mary · Published October 10, 2017

Ever since Elsa from Frozen came around more and more people have been wanting to have that beautiful ice queen hair for themselves.

If you are considering hopping on the platinum hue bandwagon, know what you are getting yourself into, first. As a wavy curly girl who had almost platinum blonde hair for over a year, although the color looks absolutely stunning, it is incredibly high maintenance–especially for curlies. 

1. Don’t do it on your own.

Go to a salon. Yes, it will be more expensive. But a professional colorist can help preserve the integrity of your hair. With bleach and high lift color especially, overlapping previous dyed sections or previously damaged hair will lead to a breakage disaster.

Don’t attempt to go Platinum without Olaplex. If I can go back in time, just over a year, Olaplex would have been around before I decided to go lighter with my hair!!! Olaplex gets added to the bleach and helps rebuild the bonds in the hair so your hair stays softer, healthier and you get minimum breakage from the harsh color service. It does cost a little more, but it is worth every single penny. It can save your hair. If you don’t believe me check out the before and afters with Olaplex from ThatBlondeGirlMandie on Youtube. I’m convinced my hair never would have broken the way it did had Olaplex been known when I colored.

2. Be ready to get even crazier about ingredients and regimen.

Platinum and all blonde hair can get brassy easily. Certain natural ingredients have some incredible benefits for the hair and others can actually attribute to brassiness and darker hair. Hibiscus, Neem and Amla are just a few. Applying pure Argan Oil which is high in vitamin E and great for hair elasticity can also unwillingly turn ice blondes darker too. Also, using hair creams and gels can make the hair appear a bit darker than it actually is, even if it doesn’t permanently stain it. Sun exposure and hard water can also make blonde hair brassy. I used hair products with a UV filter when outside like Living Proof Restore Spray. Consider getting a shower filter if you live in a hard water area to help keep your Platinum true and worth it. Sleep on a satin pillowcase. Most naturally curlies are doing this already, but now it is extra important. Satin pillowcases will help prevent frizz and help friction while you sleep. 

3. Your hair is going to be super dry.

Bleached hair is usually super dry on its own, so bleached curly hair…you get the idea. Forget about rinse out conditioners because they will probably do nothing for your hair. Use a deep conditioner every single time you wash, leaving it in as long as possible. A deep conditioner with both moisture and protein will be ideal because with the bleaching to get to platinum also comes protein loss. Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair and Living Proof Restore Treatment were and still are 2 of my favorite masks. Add moisture to your hair, even on the days you don’t wash it! I still add a moisturizing spray to my hair daily, sometimes twice a day. Platinum hair will soak up moisture and really needs a lot of it to say hydrated–I’ve been obsessed with the Mirabelle Plum refreshing spray from Carol’s Daughter and the Wen Replenishing Treatment Mists, especially the 613 one because it has added amino acids.

4. Expect frequent touch-ups.

Platinum hair with dark roots is actually a trend within itself, but if you can’t stand the look of grown in roots, expect to be at the salon every few weeks. The lighter the hair is dyed, the quicker your roots will be noticeable.

You may not get to platinum in one sitting. Especially if you are starting off with a darker base color. Remember, achieving platinum hair is quite damaging. It is far better to do it gradually rather than to in a single session–your hair will likely suffer.

PHOTO COURTESY OF JARED LETO’S INSTAGRAM

5. Use a blue or purple shampoo and/or conditioner.

6. Take extra precaution with heat tools.

Heat tools are damaging to all hair, but for Platinum and lighter blonde hair especially and even more so with platinum textures hair because it is already so delicate. If you really have to use heat, don’t even consider not using heat protectant spray with it.

7. Going platinum may alter your curl pattern.

8. Breakage might be your reality.

I know I mentioned this already, but it is worth mentioning again. Going platinum will lead to breakage if you hair is not at its healthiest state beforehand. I sadly learned this the hard way. My hair would still be super light blonde now if my strands would have been able to handle it better.

In conclusion, the color of platinum hair is gorgeous. It is breathtaking, especially on textured hair. Platinum and light blonde curls have their own set of extra issues, as the hair becomes super fragile. Remember, it is extremely high maintenance to care for. Make sure you are willing to go the extra mile for your hair care; keep your hair is healthy before heading over to the lighter side.

By Diane Mary · Updated October 10, 2017

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The use of humectants and knowing the dew point of the day can reflect on what kind of hair day you will have. Understanding them can certainly help lead to more consistent good hair days- something we all want! If you hear the terms “Humectant” and “Dew Points” and are unsure of what they mean or how they relate to your hair, my hopes is this article will help clear that up for you. 

So, what exactly is a humectant?

A humectant absorbs moisture and keeps a moisture balance in the hair and skin. Humectants will search for moisture in your own hair too. Therefore, in areas where it may be hot, but dry, these products may actually do more bad than good. In the right condition, humectantsare materials used in products to moisturize dry or damaged hair.  They promote moisture retention by attracting water molecules from the local environment and binding them to specific sites along their structure.   

A humectant absorbs moisture and keeps a moisture balance in the hair and skin.

Are Humectants Good or Bad?

Both. It completely depends on the situation. Here are 2 situation humectants are not your friend:

• BAD: In areas where the moisture and humidity is very high, like areas that are wet such as down in Florida for example, combined with the heat of the summer, humectants can overdo their job by absorbing so much moisture that the hair becomes “bloated.” This leads to puffy, frizzy hair, instead of well defined curls and waves. Generally speaking, higher your hair porosity, the more you may suffer from this.
• BAD: On the opposite end of the spectrum, when there is extremely low humidity conditions, humectants can actually draw water away from the hair shaft causing dryness and breakage! 

So when can a humectant be your hair’s bestie?

• GOOD: Given the ideal dew point outside, the use of humectants can help hair stay bouncy and retain the curl. Using humectants can also make hair feel softer, more elastic and less brittle and also protect hair from dry weather and wind.

Dew Points

Understanding dew points can be a deciding factor in figuring out when to use humectants and when to avoid them.

The definition of dew point: the temperature at which a vapor (as water”> begins or would begin to condense.

Please note: this is referring to degrees in terms of the dew point, not how hot or cold it is.

Different Dew Point Levels

Dry Dew Point: 15-30 degrees (-1 C”>

• Typically the winter months.
• Avoid humectants.
• Use leave in conditioners.
• Use light hold products.
• Use plenty of emollients (moisturizing oils, butters”>.

Mid-Range Dew Point: 30-40 degrees (-1 to 4 C”>

• In  between seasons, this will require trial and error to see what your hair likes.
• Some curls tolerate humectants in this range, some don’t.
• Use emollients.

Best Dew Point for Curls: 40-60 degrees (4 to 16 C”>

• You will enjoy the best curls at this dew point.
• Keep your hair moisturized.
• Humectants can be used.
• Use emollients.

High Dew Point: 60 (16C “> +

• May skip a leave in conditioner.
• Hard hold products like gels. You will want to control your hair.
• May want to avoid humectants.
• Use emollients.

We wish there was a magical mathematical formula to tell you exactly which ingredients to use in which temperature and humidity conditions. The best we can do is provide you with some loose recommendations on that topic. As always, you will need to do some experimentation with your own hair to find the combination of conditions and product that give the results you prefer.

If the dew point is below 35°F or so, the moisture content in the air is sufficiently low that a humectant applied to your hair might be irresistibly drawn to the moisture in your hair and make every attempt to steal it from you (by drawing it out of your hair and binding it to itself”>. This can result in dry, fly-away hair, split ends, and broken strands.

This effect can often be compensated for by using plenty of moisturizing products, not over-drying your hair (leave it somewhat moist after washing”>, and layering leave-in conditioners with humectant-containing styling product.

Curly hair seems to really thrive in moderate climactic conditions, and dew point ranges of approximately 35°F to 50°F seem to be optimal. In this type of weather, most curlies find that they can get really pleasant results by using products that contain some humectants. There is just enough moisture in the air that the humectants can grab a little from the environment, which can enhance the curl and create a bouncy feeling to the hair.

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When the dew point for your area is at 60°F or above, it might be a good idea to apply some product with anti-humectant properties. These products will seal the hair shaft, flatten the cuticle and prevent atmospheric moisture from absorbing into the interior of your strands. Most of these products will contain ingredients that are water insoluble. However, many of these products contain ingredients which are easily removed with an extremely mild shampoo or perhaps even a thorough conditioner wash.

The key to having the best curls in any weather is to have extremely well-hydrated and moisturized hair. This will protect your hair from losing too much moisture in dry weather, and it will prevent your hair from absorbing excess moisture in humid conditions. Another important factor is the overall condition of your hair. Hair that is damaged will necessarily be more porous, and thus more susceptible to climactic conditions. Smooth strands with a sealed, flat cuticle layer will be naturally more impervious to atmospheric conditions as well.

Common Humectants

• Glycerin
• Propylene Glycol
• Honey
• Agave nectar
• Sorbitol
• Sodium PCA
• Panthenol
• Hydrolyzed silk protein
• Fructose

Once you understand your climate, the weather and what your hair likes and dislikes, it will help lead to better hair days by knowing when to use products with certain humectant or anti-humectant ingredients inside. As the seasons change, so will your hair needs which is why a variety of products based on the weather is good to have. If you buy a new product and you dislike it in the Winter, you may want to shelve it and give it a try in summer where it could become a “Seasonal Holy Grail”.

For more information on Dew Points & Humectants, be sure to check out curly-wavy vlogger Waterlily716‘s video:

This article was originally published in July 2013 and has been updated for clarity and updated information.

By Diane Mary · Updated October 10, 2017

As the temperature drops, and our long, sun-filled, beach days are a distant memory, this time of year brings on new challenges that most wavy-curly haired people have to battle.

Image:@curlywhirlyred

This season, our biggest concern becomes how to maintain moisture while the air is dry. With a few tweaks, the right products, and a good routine, your hair can survive the long, dark winter season as we count down the days ‘til spring.

1. Deep condition, a lot

This is one of the most important tips. Fortifying your hair with nutrients, moisture, and protein if you are not protein sensitive, helps prevent breakage and brittleness, and it keeps our waves hydrated.

These things are essential to have healthy hair year-round, but in the warmer months, I can get away with deep conditioning less often, usually once a week. However, as it gets colder, I will use a deep conditioner every single wash, usually two to three times a week since my waves are so prone to dryness.

My picks:DevaCurl Heaven In Hair Treatment and Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair Masque

2. Welcome steam into your routine

Steam is essentially moist water, and water gives hair moisture, so this is especially important with the dry, humidity-lacking winter air.

Add steam to a deep conditioner so that it penetrates deeper. Another option is using steam with either a leave-in, or moisturizing cream on second and third day hair, because it will hydrate the hair, while revitalizing droopy waves. Steaming to refresh winter hair may even extend your wash day too.

My pick: Q-Redew Portable Hair Steamer

3. Seal your ends

Some wavies such as myself like to do the LCO Method (leave in, cream, oil”> year-round. If you usually do not seal your hair with an oil, this season is an excellent time to start.

By sealing the hair with an oil, you are locking in the moisturizing properties of the conditioner and styling products underneath, as well as keeping out the outside elements, like the dry air, from the environment, or indoor heaters.

My picks: Ouidad Mongongo Oil, Mielle Organics Mint Almond Oil

4. Temporarily shelve your humectant-filled products

Humectant ingredients including honey, wheat protein, fructose, sorbitol, glycerin and panthenol are great in the summer, and help to moisturize your hair by taking it from air all-around. However, they tend to do the opposite to our natural waves in the wintertime, drawing moisture out from your already dry hair, making it even drier and more prone to breakage, split ends and flyaways.

5. Co-wash, co-wash, co-wash

Even our wavy-curly hair needs as much moisture as possible. Now is the time of year to make the most of your co-wash, AKA cleansing conditioner. Since it contains no sulfates or lathering detergents at all, it helps our hair remain at max hydration levels as it cleanses.

If you do use products with heavy silicones or waxes, shampoo once in a while, but I will still suggest coating the length of your texture with a co-wash first. This way, the shampoo just cleanses the scalp. If you follow the Curly Girl Method or use all-natural products only, using only a co-wash in the colder months should work well.

My picks: SheaMoisture Coconut & Hibiscus Co-Wash Conditioner Cleanser, and DevaCurl No-Poo Original.

To sum it up

These are just some tips to help winterize your wavy-curly hair routine during the colder months. If you have any tips of your own, please feel free to leave them in the comments!

By Diane Mary · Updated May 23, 2017

Briogeo recently launched three new products as part of their Scalp Revival Collection: a shampoo, dry shampoo and scalp treatment. They are all infused with scalp friendly ingredients, including Binchotan charcoal.

 

I’ve been using these products since I received them and they surpassed even my high expectations I’ve come to expect from the brand.

Here is what Briogeo says about the new collection:

“A detoxifying collection of Binchotan charcoal-infused scalp therapy solutions that purify, soothe, hydrate, and treat the scalp.”

What is Binchotan Charcoal?

“Binchotan charcoal is a traditionally Japanese charcoal that is completely different from typical black charcoal. The starting material is ubame oak, a tree possessing great strength and hardness. The wood is heated to temperatures upward of 1000°C, followed by a covering with a moist mixture

of earth, sand, and ash to cool it. The resultant charcoal contains a variety of minerals that were absorbed during its life as a tree.

Because Binchotan charcoal has numerous small pores, it can absorb deep-rooted impurities and build-up from the hair and scalp. The highly absorptive quality gives Binchotan charcoal a detoxifying effect on the scalp.”

Key Ingredients In The Scalp Revival Line

• Binchotan charcoal detoxifies the scalp and draws out impurities that clog the hair follicle or that cause buildup on the scalp
• coconut oil moisturizes the scalp to prevent dryness and flakiness
• peppermint, spearmint, and tea tree oil complex provide a cooling effect to the scalp and reduce itchiness, irritation, and flakiness
• panthenol provides essential nutrients that strengthen the hair root and shaft
• witch hazel normalizes oil production to prevent oily scalp
• biotin provides essential nutrients to the hair follicle that support healthy hair growth

• safe for color-treated, keratin treated, chemically-treated, and relaxed hair
• cruelty-free, vegan, gluten-free, contains organic ingredients, and 98% naturally-derived

• formulated without sulfates, parabens, phthalates, silicones, DEA, or synthetic dyes

charcoal + coconut oil micro-exfoliating shampoo

From the brand:

This unique shampoo infuses Binchotan charcoal to draw impurities from the scalp and hair follicle to provide the foundation for optimal scalp health. Vegetable-derived micro-exfoliators remove dead skin cells and product build-up from the scalp to support a clean, balanced, and healthy scalp. A cooling blend of peppermint and spearmint oils reduces scalp itchiness and tea tree oil has anti-septic and healing properties that reduce scalp irritation and inflammation. Coconut Oil provides superior moisturization to the scalp to combat and prevent dryness and flakiness. Super-vitamin, panthenol, provides essential nutrients to strengthen the hair roots and shaft.

My review

My first thought was it is odd to see a shampoo in a tub, which is more typical for a deep conditioning product. It was no big deal, but I just had to be a bit careful in the shower not to let too much water get inside the product.

Once rinsed, my hair did feel super squeaky-clean. I didn’t want to run my fingers through the length; it was begging for deep conditioner and moisture. This shampoo really got rid of every trace of build-up, toxins, and any junk that didn’t belong on my scalp and hair.

I followed up with a deep conditioner such as Briogeo Don’t Despair, Repair Masque and my favorite stylers. I have gotten such unbelievable hair days every time I use this–I think my curl definition moved into the next classified category! Since this was the only new product I used the first few times trying it out, it’s how I can thank it for the extra definition, softness, and shine! I think this blew the other shampoos out of the water.

charcoal + tea tree scalp treatment

From the brand:

What is is: This unique treatment infuses Binchotan charcoal to draw impurities from the scalp and hair follicle to remove build-up and provide the foundation for optimal scalp health. A cooling blend of peppermint and spearmint oils reduces scalp itchiness and tea tree oil has antiseptic and healing properties that reduce scalp irritation and inflammation. Witch hazel water helps to normalize oil production to prevent an oily scalp while sodium hyaluronate and aloe keep the scalp balanced and hydrated. Super-vitamin, Biotin, provides essential nutrients to the hair follicle to support healthy hair growth.

My review

There are so many different ways you can use this treatment. Since I personally do not have big scalp concerns, a Briogeo rep told me I can use it once or twice a week overnight on my scalp on either wet or dry hair as a pre-poo treatment. I decided to use it in place of my usual scalp oil blend the night before washing. It felt nice–not too heavy.

I love the hair growth ingredients inside such as biotin, tea tree oil, spearmint, and peppermint, a great blend that requires only two droppers to thoroughly cover my scalp. It is too soon to say anything miraculous or amazing happened–let’s be realistic here, please–but I plan on using it once a week before washing for the long term for additional scalp and hair growth benefits.

charcoal + biotin dry shampoo

From the brand:

This unique, scalp-healthy dry shampoo infuses Binchotan charcoal to draw impurities from the scalp and detoxify the scalp and hair. A complex of clay and tapioca & rice starches absorb excess oil at the roots to refresh, clean, and extend the life of your blowout. Witch Hazel extract helps to normalize oil production to prevent an oily scalp, making this dry shampoo a solution oriented product as opposed to just a temporary fix. Super-vitamin, Biotin, provides essential nutrients to the hair follicle to support healthy hair growth.

My review

A dry shampoo that helps promote hair growth? Ladies and gentlemen, coming straight from my dreams to Briogeo suppliers everywhere, let me present to you the Charcoal and Biotin Dry Shampoo. *Cue confetti* Okay, I’m done being silly–but if you read my articles and blog regularly, you know I love everything and anything that can help my hair grow long and strong, and as a curly who works out regularly and is too lazy to wash daily, dry shampoo is my best friend.

My final thoughts

Do you use charcoal in your beauty routine?

Editor’s note: This article is not sponsored.

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By Diane Mary · Updated April 27, 2017

I recently was able to try the line–I am quite impressed! I’ve been using them together, as well as mixed in with other brands and they are so good. 

All of the Curlsmith products contains no sulfates, parabens, silicones, mineral oils, phthalates, DEA, and are vegan and cruelty-free. With this product line, less is more and a little goes a long way, so the bottles and jars should last quite a while.

What Curlsmith says about their line:

“This line is high quality, hard-working curl-care formulas that are fresh, fragrant and deeply nourishing ‘food for curls.’ Curlsmith blends fresh curl-loving foods with kitchen cupboard staples and rare organic ingredients. One such rarity is Resurrection Flower, a dry shrub that survives for up to three years without water, transforming into a lush plant on contact with moisture. This property helps it revive dehydrated curls.”

The scent of these products is out of this world. I can’t quite pinpoint it, but it is delicious and unique. Fruity sweetness with a touch of herbal fragrance from basil would be my best way to describe it.

Curl Conditioning Oil-In-Cream

From the brand:

“Moisture, Nourish, Shine. Our rich leave-in conditioner is perfect for TWA’s, Wash & Go, L.O.C. Method, braids and twist outs. It can also be use as a curl primer in combination with other products. It doesn’t flake, is non-greasy and non-crunchy. Plus it’s blended with organic carrot, olive and aloe vera oils for extra Strength, Moisture and Shine.”

Handpicked ingredients

• resurrection flower
• organic carrot oil
• rare andiroba
• organic olive oil
• aloe and basil blend

My review

This has been a go-to product on second and third day hair for me (I’ve posted a couple of times about it on Instagram“>. A little goes a long way and when using the correct amount I am left with super moisturized, shiny, frizz free hair. It also makes a good leave-in for me on wet hair, prepping my hair for gel on top while enhancing my definition; although I really do prefer it for second or third day hair. Additionally, I can use this to smooth down my hair when I wear it tied back.

Curl Defining Styling Souffle

From the brand:

“Define, Anti-frizz, Bounce, Enhance. Our styling Souffle is all about bouncy definition. It is perfect for creating flexible wash & go styles, braids and twist outs. It leaves no residue, is non-greasy and non-crunchy. Plus, it’s blended with Irish Moss for elasticity, Babassu oil for moisture and Flax Seed for defined curls.”

Handpicked ingredients

• indigenous Irish moss
• babassu oil
• flax seed infusion
• rare andiroba
• wild rosemary & sage
• organic avocado

My review

This is a jelly-like formula which had me concerned because my hair does not always like jellies. It was a bit difficult to scoop the product and apply onto my hair; it stayed kind of chunky. I admit that I am not crazy about the texture and mess, and also feel like I wasted too much. When my hair was wet, it felt a bit stiff.

All that being said, the results using this when my hair fully dried were absolutely great! The stiffness scrunched out and I was left with bouncy, frizz-free, defined curls underneath that did not feel hard or crunchy at all. It played well with leave-ins and creams underneath from several different brands which was another bonus. I notice when using this styling souffle I get an extra day or so of wearing my ‘wash day hair’ down. I did not try this on day 2 or 3 hair. A little went far so this jar is going to last me quite a while. 

Intense Deep Treatment Oil Serum

From the brand:

“Ultra Hydrate, Elasticity, Damage Protect. Our hard-working and versatile serum brings back shine, strength, silky softness and manageability to even the most damaged curls. Perfect for lifeless, dull, brittle, frizzy or roughly handled hair. Our formula contains Oats to enhance elasticity, Macadamia to protect against damage and Apricot kernels for ultra hydration.”

Handpicked ingredients

• infused jojoba
• organic avocado oil
• silky oat oil
• rare andiroba
• macadamia oil
• organic apricot oil

My review

At first I was not sure if this was a deep conditioner or a styler or what. Turns out, it can be used as either–even as a pre-poo on dry hair! I have been enjoying this oil serum. Like the rest of this line, too much will leave my hair a bit weighed down, but the right amount gives me excellent hair days. The consistency is similar to pure coconut oil, but when you warm a little bit between your hands, it easily turns into an oil. On wet hair I use it as my last step in the LCO Method on top of another styler to seal in moisture. This can also be used on dry hair to tame frizz that may have popped up. I have also been throwing this in my purse for touch-ups if needed during the day. 

 

Curl Quenching Conditioning Wash

From the brand:

“Moisture, Shine, Anti-Frizz, Detangle. Say goodbye to traditional foaming shampoos which contain chemicals and soaps that strip the natural oils from your curls. This gentle, lightweight yet hardworking formula removes build-up and dirt, leaving curly hair manageable, soft and shiny. Suitable for color-treated hair and perfect for detangling. Plus it’s blended with rare ingredients like Andiroba to restore shine and Resurrection Flower to help curls retain moisture.”

Handpicked ingredients

• mashed shea butter
• resurrection flower
• organic coconut
• rare andiroba
• organic avocado oil
• torn sage and basil
• black pepper oil

My review

This co-wash is lovely; it is super moisturizing and has incredible slip that allowed me to detangle at lightning speed. It has absolutely no lather at all, so massaging with the pads of my fingers was a must to properly cleanse my scalp. I felt like if I had to, I possibly could skip conditioner after this–it left my hair feeling that silky and soft! I also like some of the more uncommon extracts in here that I don’t see all that often which helps promote follicle health and hair growth.

This is a wonderful co-wash. I can’t think of one bad thing about this product!

To sum it up

Overall, I really like the new CurlSmith line. All four products gave me nice results when used together and also with other brands. A little goes so far with all the products which will make them last long.

Something else worth mentioning is the fact that the products are thicker consistencies and are in jars and not bottles–aside from the co-wash–or squeeze tubes, making it easier for me to use without struggle.

I like that the ingredients inside help treat and repair my hair, there is nothing bad inside and the smell is so delicious! Finally, when I use these products, and even combine them with other more natural products (such as Raw Curls, Inahsi Naturals, and Briogeo”>, my hair air dries significantly faster than usual.

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By Diane Mary · Updated April 17, 2017

If you remember my blog post from January when I was at the Ouidad NYC Flagship Salon for my cut, I mentioned I got a sneak peek of upcoming products. Well, these are the new releases!

What the Ouidad brand says about the line:

“Buoyant, brilliant, best: No matter the climate, Advanced Climate Control keeps curls defined and frizz free. Our advanced Anti-Frizz Nano Technology locks in moisture and locks in moisture and locks out humidity, for stronger, softer, silkier curls. Thanks to its small molecular size, Sericin Nano Protein Technology creates a better sealing effect versus traditional proteins. Every strand gets powerful protection, locking in moisture and locking out humidity. It’s the ultimate defense for everyday, long-lasting silky curls.”

He confirmed that the new Advanced Climate Control formulas will actually be replacing the old ones.

Jason told me “the formula [of the new products] is the same, it just has nano technology, which is little small silk proteins that bind to the gaps in the hair shaft which give a softer 2nd day look more than that wet crunchy first day look. Also, it’s a system, so if you use the whole system you get maximum frizz protection from humidity.” He told me that curl consumers have been reaching for creams more than gels recently, “so in the industry we wanted to improve the formula to allow clients who don’t search for gel to use a gel that literally feels like it’s silk. We wanted to improve our star product to reach out to consumers who want more of a second day look instead of that hard set gel look.” As you will read in my review below, I completely agree with Jason on how this gel does not feel like a gel at all, in a good way!

Advanced Climate Control Defrizzing Shampoo

From the brand:

“Frizz defense starts in the shower with our sulfate-free shampoo, which gently cleanses and respects your curls’ natural protective barrier. Create the perfect frizz-free foundation without stripping moisture to enhance curls’ shape and shine.”

My review

Advanced Climate Control Defrizzing Conditioner

From the brand:

“Curls crave moisture. Without proper hydration, they’ll try to take it from the atmosphere, raising the cuticle and causing frizz. Stop frizz before it starts by infusing your curls with our advanced blend of rich emollients. Our cocktail of shea and murumuru butters, plus Ceramides, repairs and moisturizes every curl from root to end.”

My review

I generally prefer using masques or deep conditioners as my hair is so dry, so I double checked with Jason who confirmed that it also works as a leave-in and that is how I used it. This conditioner is thick to the point that it is a tad difficult to get out of the bottle! I actually love that since my genetically thirsty hair loves richer formulas like this. I have used this a couple of times and it makes my hair really easy to detangle, while leaving it silky soft and enhancing my curl pattern.

Advanced Climate Control Detangling Heat Spray

From the brand:

“Spritz, prime, protect: Our Detangling Heat Spray with a protective UV filter locks in moisture and defends against everyday damage caused by heat, styling and humidity.”

My review

Advance Climate Control Heat and Humidity Gel

From the brand:

“Our signature award-winning Heat and Humidity Gel has now been upgraded to include Anti-Frizz Nano Technology for advanced frizz protection and our longest-lasting curl definition ever. This weightless gel has a flexible hold that won’t leave hair crunchy, sticky or weighed down.”

My review

The Tress Effects Gel was always my favorite but this newly formulated Climate Control is giving it a serious run for the money. It has the perfect amount of hold without leaving my hair stiff or crunchy, cuts down on frizz when paired with the spray and seriously increases my curl definition! This gel also has UV protection and fights against unwanted volume. Believe it or not, the gel doesn’t feel like a gel at all. I feel like it actually has more of a serum consistency, which is great. This product feels super light in my hair, I don’t even feel it there!

To sum it up

As a whole, the new Advanced Climate Control system is really good! The most impressive result I noticed after using it was the incredible definition it brought out in my waves. Also, my frizz was minimal, though not completely gone when air dried. Honestly I’ve never see my hair 100% frizz-free–I wasn’t expecting that. My hair was left soft and shiny and also not weighed down at all, but my dreaded pouf was successfully tamed. I enjoyed the system’s moisturizing capabilities; it had just the right amount of moisture without being overdone, and I liked knowing my curls are also protected from the elements. My head also feels lighter, which is a great plus! I got great second-day hair also that needed minimal touching up, especially when I used the system together.

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By Diane Mary · Updated April 14, 2017

My hair usually takes so long to dry, that anything that cuts down that time is miraculous to me! Overall, the Inahsi Naturals line really blew me away. 

Inahsi Naturals is a cruelty-free line of hair products that does not contain parabens, silicones, sulfates, and other harmful ingredients, and was created especially for individuals with naturally curly hair of all types and textures. The line was founded by chemist and educator, Rhonda Marshall, after she started making recipes for chemical-free hair products in her home. Her recipes are full of excellent ingredients for optimal hair health and growth encouragement! I’ve been following the brand on Instagram for a while and was happy to play around with the line!

What’s cool about Inahsi Naturals

Their site has some curated collections, making it easy to start off by finding products made for your desired goals. Originally I started off with the Healthy Hair Collection designed for hair growth and then received the rest of the line.

Something else I noticed with this line is that the more Inahsi products I used combined for a wash day, the lighter my hair felt overall, and the quicker it would dry. My hair usually takes so long to dry that anything that cuts down that time is miraculous to me!

All three of the Soothing Mint products below have the same, delicious chocolatey-mint scent to them. I also noticed these three products feel cooling and tingling on my scalp, which I believe is thanks to peppermint oil, a key ingredient.

Soothing Mint Sulfate Free Clarifying Shampoo

From the brand:

“From styling products to butters our hair can experience product build-up. This can lead to dry, brittle hair which leads to breakage. This sulfate-free clarifying shampoo will remove excessive product build up from natural and silicone-based products. The cooling sensation of mint will invigorate the senses while stimulating the scalp to promote overall healthy hair.”

My review

This clarifying shampoo lathered well and left my hair feeling squeaky clean, but not stiff. I absolutely had to follow-up with something very moisturizing; my hair let me know it, too. I like that this is sulfate-free but still can remove silicones from products I wind up trying out for other product reviews. Admittedly, I would not use this shampoo too often–maybe once a month, at most.

Soothing Mint Sulfate-Free Gentle Cleansing Shampoo

From the brand:

“This sulfate-free gentle cleansing shampoo moisturizes as it cleans. Our shampoo will clean your hair and scalp without stripping it of its natural nutrients. The cooling sensation of mint will invigorate the senses while stimulating the scalp to promote overall healthy hair.”

My review

I like this shampoo a lot because it cleaned my hair and detangled it. When I was rinsing it I felt my fingers glide through my length so easily. This isn’t something I’m used to with an actual shampoo and not a co-wash. My hair felt soft from a shampoo! It did a nice job of removing days of product and work out sweat; I also like that there are hair growth essential oils such as peppermint, rosemary and lavender inside, too! This shampoo is awesome.

Soothing Mint Moisturizing Conditioner

From the brand:

“This rich creamy moisturizing conditioner is enriched with nutrients that will moisturize, strengthen and leave your hair touchably soft.  The cooling sensation of mint will invigorate the senses while stimulating the scalp to promote overall healthy hair.”

My review

I like that this conditioner is on the richer side since I usually prefer masques and heavier conditioners for my high porosity, forever dry hair. I reached out to Inahsi Naturals and they said this can also be used as a leave-in. I used it a few times so far both as a rinse out and leave in. As a rinse out, it properly conditions my hair without weighing it down. As a leave-in, it did a nice job to moisturize my hair and prime it for the styling products I used on top. It played well with products from different brands as well, without clumping or balling up. The slip was fantastic. If you still had any tangles left after the Soothing Mint Shampoo, this Conditioner will annihilate them.

If you still had any tangles left after the Soothing Mint Shampoo, this Conditioner will annihilate them.

Mango Hemp Restorative Deep Conditioner

From the brand:

“Let’s face it; our hair can be put through its paces. Between everyday wear and tear, caused by weathering, manipulative styling, and heat and chemical processes, it is enough to make our hair down right parched, weak and damaged. Our all natural deep treatment hair masque will restore, protect, and strengthen your tresses to promote overall healthy hair. This hair masque is enriched with ceramides, such as Hemp oil, that will help hair retain moisture, restore hair’s balance and help to minimize the effects of daily wear and tear.  The silk amino acids will strength your hair and restore protein loss due to damage.   Perfect for transitioners from chemical to natural, color-treated hair, and over processed hair. “

My review

This Deep Conditioner is so good…so good! It has even earned a spot on my Holy Grail Deep Conditioner list. The scent is fruity and a bit strong, but it is from natural fragrances and didn’t bother my allergies. This deep conditioner is rich but spreads easily, so a little goes a long way. My hair drinks it up as it removes any tangles at lightning fast speed. I love the hair growth ingredients in here such as nettle and horsetail. This deep conditioner hydrates, moisturizes and strengthens my hair all at once, and really does an excellent job at helping to tackle frizz and de-pouf my hair.

Aloe Hibiscus Leave-In Conditioner

From the brand:

“This ultra moisturizing leave-in conditioner moisturizes, strengthens and restore shine which makes Aloe Hibiscus Leave-in Conditioner & Detangler a triple threat to parched tresses. The water and aloe Vera juice moisturizes, the panthenol along with the rich oils of avocado and coconut help to strengthen the hair while the ayurvedic herbal blend of hibiscus and marshmallow root not only provides slip for pesky knots but they help to make the hair soft, supple and sleek.”

My review

What a great leave-in; it is moisturizing and does a great job on my wavy hair whether it is wet or dry. This smells similar to, but not exactly like the deep conditioner. Oftentimes a lot of leave-ins are too lightweight for me to use on wet hair, but this one passes that test. Like the Soothing Mint Conditioner, it plays nicely with other Inahsi products as well as other brands. Besides being effective on my wet hair, it does a lovely job adding moisture and bounce back into days old hair, too.

Island Breeze Moisturizing Hair Whip

From the brand:

“Let your tresses feel the moisture locking power of Island Breeze. This moisture sealing hair whip is rich with Aloe Vera Juice which restores moisture to the hair as well as Shea butter which restores shine and locks in moisture. Couple this with the Aloe Hibiscus Leave-in Conditioner & Detangler for ultra moisturized tresses.”

My review

The scent of this product is addicting: very island-esque, with citrus and slight hints of coconut. With this product, less is definitely more. A few times I was too heavy-handed and my hair looked too ‘product-y’ which tends to happen to me when using butters. Once I figured out the right amount for my hair, this stuff helped decrease frizz and increase manageability of my hair, while leaving it super soft and shiny. I like to use this on dry hair to add shine and fight frizz, or on wet hair in place of an oil to seal in my leave-in and styler. I let it warm up to an oil-like consistency before using it on wet hair. I actually started carrying this in my purse for touch ups throughout the day in case I get caught in wind or rain.

Coconut Avocado Curl Defining Custard

From the brand:

“This natural styling custard will leave your curls moisturized, defined and oh so shiny. The panthenol along with the rich oils of avocado and coconut help to strengthen the hair. This curl defining custard provides a light hold without leaving your hair dry or crunchy. It is also great to sleek down edges.”

My review

The texture of this is quite unique. Not quite a gel, not a cream and also not a jelly. It’s not super thick, but not runny and thin either. What it is though, is wonderful. It has a clean scent to it. I am usually not crazy about lighter hold gels, but I really like this one because it gave me nice, touchable definition while de-poufing my waves. It is not crunchy, either. My hair did dry with a stiffer gel cast, but it easily scrunched out and soft, shiny waves emerged from underneath. I used this when washing my hair at night, which usually leads to disaster in the mornings. However, this time, I woke up with lovely, defined curls, and I think that was because of the stiff gel cast that protected my hair in my sleep. I have also used this on days-old hair and paired with the Hair Whip, they did a lovely job.

Rock Your Curls Curl Enhancing Cream

From the brand:

“Curls are so much fun. Our Rock Your Curls Curl Enhancing Cream will moisturize, define and strengthen your curls while leaving them touchably soft.  Isn’t it time that you “Rocked Your Curls?”

My review

This coconut drink-scented cream works well on days old hair as a stand alone product to keep any frizziness and poofiness at bay, as well as re-moisturize and add bounce back to my curls. I also used it a few times on wet hair in place of my leave-in under a gel and oil. It is quite rich, and again, less is more. I learned that of course by overdoing it the first time. (Side note: will I ever learn? Probably not”>. For high porosity, naturally dry hair, it does make a nice leave-in. I also like that using it as a leave-in seemed to tame my curls and prevent undesirable volume.

Tropical Escape Co-Wash

From the brand:

“This gentle cleansing conditioner will cleanse, moisturize and hydrate without stripping your hair of its natural nutrients. This tranquil fragrance will whisk you away to tropics.”

My review

This is a fruity pineapple-scented co-wash that is fantastic! It truly did a good job of cleansing, moisturizing, and detangling for me. It helps keep my hair soft, as well as clean. I can actually use this with a regular conditioner (not a masque”> afterwards, and my hair feels properly hydrated and very soft!

To sum it up

Overall, the Inahsi Naturals line really blew me away! I’ve been playing with this line for over a month now, alone and also mixed with other brands, and have really liked the results.

I want to call out that a lot of the Inahsi products contain hyaluronic acid, which is a popular ingredient for skincare, although we do not see it often in hair products. But did you know that it helps to moisturize, add fullness and plumpness to hair? I think it is quite unique and great that the brand includes it.

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By Diane Mary · Updated April 11, 2017

Curls to Go is a new line created by natural hair care brand Jane Carter Solution for all kinds of curly hair. I’ve been playing around with the six products in this line for a month and have to say, I am absolutely loving them!

What the brand claims

“Our products are comprised of the very finest natural ingredients, including pure organic essential oils, natural butters, plant extracts, and vitamins which are carefully formulated to repair and hydrate dry or damaged hair.”

My first impression

The new Curls to Go line is intended for curly and coily hair, but if you have naturally dry, wavy hair like mine, hear me out, you may benefit from this. Just keep in mind the amount of product being used–it is good to go with the ‘less is more’ approach with this one and gradually add more only if you need it.

Curl Drench Cleansing Co Wash

According to the Jane Carter Solution site:

• This 2 in 1 sulfate-free formula releases hydrating doses of essential conditioning ingredients.

• Ultra quenching, it cleanses and conditions, perfecting each curl’s shape.

• It cleans and nourishes the scalp and hair without stripping away natural oils.

• Curls are softer, more manageable diminishing frizz.

• Enriched with Jojoba Oil & Restorative Botanicals to gently cleanse, condition and hydrate hair.

My review

The fragrance is floral without the fruitiness mixed in some of the other stylers, which I love. It’s not bad, but not my favorite.

I don’t mind styling products in tubs, but I am not crazy about this one. I would prefer having a co-wash that I use in the shower in a pump or bottle, as a tub runs the risk of too much water into the product, and because of how much space it takes.

That being said, the co-wash itself is nice; it left my hair clean, moisturized and feeling oh so soft. There is no lather at all, but that doesn’t bother me. Every time I use this, even when my hair is dry after washing, I still feel the softening effects.

As soon as I put this co-wash on my hair, and I applied it to scalp and lengths, my fingers just glided through my hair effortlessly. This is good stuff.

Curl Drench Curl Cocktail Conditioning Styling Cream

Per the Jane Carter Solution site:

• Defines curls, reduces frizz and smoothes hair for a soft, silky feel.

• Restores moisture, hydrates while reducing breakage and protects the hair shaft.

• Creates brilliant shine, reduces frizz and conditions hair, adding brilliant shine without weighing it down for bouncy, healthy curls.

• Enriched with Shea Butter, Coconut Oil, Aloe Leaf Extract .

My review

Out of all the products in the line, scent-wise this is my least favorite. It kind of smells like a floral Play-Doh to me which isn’t necessarily bad, but not quite what I was expecting compared to how yummy the rest of the stylers smell.

This is more of a heavy cream, so for hair that feels weighed down easily, take an extremely light hand with this one–or just stick with the leave-in. I have used this in place of a leave in a couple of times since the winter air was so dry where I live. I also used this product on Day 2 or 3 hair to add moisture back to my curls, and it worked very well as long as I didn’t use too much.

Overall, this styling creme defines my curls nicely and leaves them feeling incredibly silky each time I use it, although I have not tried it without gel on wet hair yet. The silky-smooth feeling I get is wonderful, and I have even multi-tasked this product as an overnight pre-poo treatment before for its beneficial conditioning properties.

Coiling All Curls Elongating Gel

Per the Jane Carter Solution site:

• To Define Curls and Reduce Shrinkage for Super Coily & Super Curly Hair.

• Great to apply to wet or damp hair to elongate curls. It dries clean and shiny leaving hair soft and frizz free.

• Your hair will have amazing curl definition, bounce and moisture.

• Perfect for wash and go styling.

• Enriched with Nettle Leaf Extract, Aloe Vera Gel, Coconut Oil.

My review

This deliciously fruity smelling gel is wonderful–and I love pumps!

This medium hold gel is different than a lot of gels I use. It does dry a bit stiff but scrunches out effortlessly and leaves me with soft, defined waves (it is actually an elongating gel”>. When I use it I notice longer, softer, frizz-free waves that feel like silk. If you are looking to stretch out your curl pattern this is an excellent product to help with that. This gel also plays nice on days-old hair to help with frizz, control, and adds shine.

Mist Me Over Curl Hydrator

Per the Jane Carter Solution site:

• Water based mist instantly hydrates and strengthens curls.
•  Adds complex Amino Acid and Silk proteins necessary to rebuild stronger, shinier hair.

• Enriched with Shea Butter, Sage, Nettle and Rosemary.

• Natural glycerides seal in moisture, making hair healthy and manageable.

• Great for daily use to hydrate and reactivate curls for ‘second’ day hair.

My review

I have really been enjoying this as a refresher spray for second and third day hair. It has a light floral-fruity scent that is very pleasant. It adds bounce back to my curls that may have drooped from sleeping and/or working out, and I don’t need to use a whole lot. This spray leaves my hair feeling soft and I like that there are ingredients inside that help moisturize AND strengthen my hair. I spray a little bit every day is a leave in treatment. I also really like the sprayer on the top of the bottle, it distributes a nice, even, fine mist.

Untangle Me Weightless Leave-In

Per the Jane Carter Solution site:

• For Hydrating, De-tangling & Controlling Frizz. This weightless leave-in conditioner is great for wash and go curly styles.

• It reduces frizz as it hydrates and de-tangles hair. It provides intense hydrating nourishment with no weigh down.

• This formula feeds curls with moisture, helps block frizz and nurtures each curl’s elasticity and shape.

• Can also be used as a regular rinse out conditioner for wavy hair or as a leave-in for thicker curlier hair types.

• Enriched with Mango Butter, Slippery Elm, Marshmallow Root.

My review

This is a nice leave in that plays well with stylers from several different brands. It is on the lightweight side, so if your hair gets weighed down easily, this one may be a winner.

I did not need to use a lot, but at the same time a little didn’t go a long way for me, so it is somewhere in the middle for my hair as far as how much I need to use. You may want to experiment with the quantity you use. It has a fruity-floral scent, which was a tad less juicy than the Elixir (below”>. Still, it was quite delicious.

This leave-in also has excellent slip; I’ve used it on days-old hair to add moisture back in which it did pretty well, instead of reaching for the Curl Cocktail Crème.

Shine On Curl Elixir

Per the Jane Carter Solution site:

• For Smoothing, Conditioning, Sealing In Moisture and adding instant shine to Curly Hair. This serum leaves hair feeling silky smooth, soft and shiny.

• Great as a Shampoo Prep for extra dry or damaged naturally curly hair.

• It seals in moisture, eliminates breakage and frizz and leaves hair with an amazing shine.

• Enriched with Argan, Aloe Vera Gel, Macadamia Oil

My review

This oil blend is amazing. The scent is so addictively juicy and fruity. I’ve used this to seal my wet styled hair as part of the “L.C.O.” method and also on dry hair if I needed additional shine after using the mist. It is lightweight but really does enhance the shine without looking greasy or weighing my hair down.

Used on wet hair, I noticed this product impressively cuts down my frizz!

Used on wet hair, I noticed this product impressively cuts down my frizz! On wet hair, I usually use 2 sprays per section (on seven sections”>. I have also been using a spray here or there and rubbing it into my cuticles which is making my nails look nicer too, but to be honest, I’ve been doing this since I love the fragrance so much.

After using it extensively, this curl elixir now has a place on my favorite oil blend list! Great performance, great ingredients, great scent and easy to control spray bottle…it’s really that good.

To sum it up

Overall, my experience with the Jane Carter Solutions Curls to Go line is quite positive. I really did enjoy all of the products, some more than others, and with the Shine On Curl Elixir and Mist Me Over Curl Hydrator being my very favorites. I would LOVE to see Jane Carter Solution add a Deep Treatment to this line!!!

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By Diane Mary · Updated March 30, 2017

February 2017 marked two full years since I last dyed my hair. Even though I don’t love my natural color, I want my hair to be fully healthy.

Let me give you a quick background as well as what I learned in transitioning back to my natural color:

I used to dye my hair a very light blonde hue, but long story short, although I was babying it and taking as much care of it as I could have, improper use of bleach–which was done at a salon, by the way–caused extreme breakage. To say it was devastatingly traumatizing for me would be the understatement of my life. The breakage took a huge toll on my self esteem and I was depressed. I was a beauty blogger at the time with a focus on hair and I felt like I just failed at life. The experience scarred me. Being terrified to have anyone use color on my hair, and wanting my hair to really get as healthy as it could be, meant I would grow out my natural color.

I thought my curls were in decent condition at the time when my hair was colored.

But looking back now, my length was very thin, the ends were scraggly and my hair was a lot frizzier. The curls were also stretched out and not nearly as bouncy and defined as they have been becoming lately. The process to grow out hair color is quite tedious. I didn’t want to big chop because I lost enough length as it was and was unwilling to sacrifice losing any more. This meant going for trims regularly to remove the dead ends without losing too much more length at once. For a while (months!”> the line of demarcation looked pretty awkward, but I dealt with it as I reminded myself how some day in the future, I will have really long hair again that will also be healthy!

As the months and years went on, the awkward line of demarcation turned onto my hair looking like I just paid someone money to ‘ombre’ my ends.

Luckily, that was still a popular look so I got by. Now I would say at least 90% of my hair is my natural color, with some ends still having slight color that will probably get trimmed off by the end of 2017. Aside from having two clear different hair colors growing it out, the breakage was uneven and some of the breakage pieces were noticeably shorter. I didn’t want all my hair as short as some of the shortest breakage pieces so my current hairdresser listened and understood, micro-trimmed them to remove the dead ends and I just let them be, as awkward and not ideal as it was.

THIS made the biggest difference.

Caring for bleach, colored damage curls versus caring for natural hair color is the amount of product I use. I am still adjusting and too often I get heavy-handed with products, but only because when my hair had bleach in it, my hair felt so dry and damaged and required a lot more conditioner and product in order to style it the way I wanted.

Some of the other bonuses of having my natural hair color back is not having to spend hours sitting at a salon with dye on my hair as well as having to spend all the extra money to get it done and also not having to worry about roots growing in. I did the math: I save over $1,000 a year by not going to get my hair colored! I can’t believe how much thicker my hair is now that it is nearly all natural again. I’ve been taking Viviscal supplements since the breakage happened to help my hair grow.

For the longest time, I hated my hair length. I love long hair on me.

Short hair looks so lovely on other people, not on me. I didn’t like it and I hated mirrors. If you scroll through my Instagram, you may have even noticed during that time there was significantly less selfies. My hair is finally at an acceptable point I feel a bit better about, but it’s still short for my own likings.

I don’t love my natural color. It’s a dirty strawberry blonde, and I like light blonde better on me. However, I’d rather have curls that are more defined and bouncy, hair that is less frizzy, and more manageable. I also have some greys peeping in now that I am getting older. I think they give my color a little dimension and I don’t mind them. Again, I want my hair to be fully healthy.

A last important note about my choice…

Of course I know for many people who dye their hair, it stays healthy and they enjoy it, which is awesome for them! This is my personal experience with hair dye and admittedly, now I am pretty afraid of it. I cannot say that I would never dye my hair for the rest of my life because I cannot predict the future and things may change. But for now, I want nothing to do with it.

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By Diane Mary · Updated March 29, 2017

Raw Curls is without a doubt one of my favorite curly product brands, and for good reason.

When I asked Raw Curls creator, Ken Nickels, to elaborate on the magical anti-frizz ingredient in the spray, he said:

“The anti frizz spray utilizes a patented molecule that actually forces damaged cuticle to come back together and repair itself, thus eliminating frizz..The technology works from the very first application, and the hair cuticle only gets better with continued use. It is silicone-free, sulfate-free, and paraben-free.” 

The newly formulated Curly Conditioner

The newly reformulated Raw Curls Conditioner contains the same patented ingredient as the Anti-Frizz Spray now. I asked Ken (who you should follow on instagram @rawcurls since he does more giveaways than anyone ever”> if I still needed to use the Anti-Frizz Spray if I was planning on using the Conditioner as a leave in and they have the same special ingredient. “They both reduce frizz,” added Ken. “One doesn’t replace the other, the conditioner just makes [the frizz] better [to deal with]…and [the conditioner] ‘heals’ the hair strands, for lack of a better word. They both have frizz-fighting capabilities. Thus when used together, you get a super-high frizz-fighting results.” In other words, we will surely get good results using either/or, but the combination will only take those results to the next level–that’s why I layer both! Ken also told me the conditioner will continue to heal my hair and give me better results with each use. I have used it quite a few times now, trying it as a rinse-out and as a leave-in with no other mask and also as my leave in followed after a masque and have got great results each way. Since frizz is one of my hair’s top issues, I really like how these products help get it under control while enhancing my curl definition and leaving my hair soft.

The newly formulated Shine Serum

All of the same strand-healing and shine-enhancing organic oils are in this product as well. However, the level of organic argan oil has increased, which is awesome news since my hair loves elasticity-repairing vitamin E and argan oil. I really like to seal wet hair with this oil and I also like it on hair that is days old if I want to bring back some shine.

Another thing I do with the oil, which I actually learned from Ken’s wife, Melanie Nickels–who happens to be Co-Creator of Raw Curls, a talented hair artist, and Florida salon owner–is that you can combine this with the Raw Curls Pomade for additional shine and control.  This oil is also good for the skin! It has been known to help with skin issues, including scarring. The silicone-free Shine Serum is lightweight and won’t weigh hair down. I use a decent amount on my wet hair to seal–usually 2 pumps per section–but I love the benefits and how well it works. Even using the amount I use, the little bottles lasts quite a while for me.

My final review

You may be wondering now if I have a preference between the Raw Curls Wavy Swavy Conditioner or the original. I actually really like both products–I have even combined the two conditioners together to get the beneficial ingredients in both. However, since my natural color hair has grown in and my hair is still very dry, I think Curly Conditioner is a bit more moisturizing, which my hair has been really loving lately.

Overall, Raw Curls already had some solid products for curlies, so the fact they somehow managed to improve on what was already great is quite impressive. Now if only they would make a curl cream!

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